wombat_socho

I think there's no limit to how many people one person can care about. I still cry over 9/11 and none of those people were in my "monkeysphere." On the other hand, I have no tears left for a relationship that meant everything to me that ended in October 2001. He was in my "monkeysphere" and I do still care about him, but cry over him? Not anymore.

Maybe the Dunbar number is just an excuse for our own selfishness and cruelty. . . "Hey, it's not my fault! It's the Dunbar number!"